The word ‘Verbal’ means relating to or in the form of words. ‘Verbal exchanges’ means the
way you are acting when speaking. Verbal exchanges such as; body language, Body
Language is a significant aspect of modern communication; it is the way you
hold your posture, you can tell if you are listening or bored and if you have
eye contact with the person, also the sending and receiving of body language
signals happens on conscious and unconscious levels. A positive body language
makes a person seem interested and engaged in conversation, whereas a negative
body language gives a poor impression of yourself, this includes failing to
make eye contact, slouching, crossing your arms or shifting during conversation.
Use of intonation; this means the tone of voice for example
a loud tone would be shouting and that could mean the person is angry. Using a
tone of voice can tell people your personality and the way you are feeling,
also intonation is used differently depending on the audience, for example
talking to a baby, people sometimes speak with a baby voice, if you have a
class of 11 year olds you certainly would not talk to them as if they were your
own age, or you wouldn’t talk to a 20 year old as if you were talking to a 3
year old. When talking to an audience you should pause to let the audience have
time to take in what you have said. Nodding tells the other person that you understand
what they are saying and tells people you agree, it also shows a positive
answer to a question, but if someone shakes their head that shows that they do
not agree with what the person is saying. Summarising and paraphrasing shows an
understanding when you say what the other person has just said, but saying it
in a different way. Summarising is generally used when what you have to say is
a long text; it enables you to reduce the ideas to key points in an outline of
the discussion or argument. Paraphrasing is generally used when you want to
refer to sentences or phrases in the source text; it is useful when you are
dealing with facts and definitions, it involves rewriting or speaking a short
section from text or what someone else has said into different words whilst
keeping the same meaning, to show an understanding. The benefits in using all
of these are to show the person who is talking, weather you are actually
listening, also if you understand and when you are speaking using a specific
tone of voice it shows how you are feeling. The disadvantages to it are: it
would show up in your body language and your tone of voice and show your
personality, so the people listening would easily tell how confident you are.